conflicted eXXistence blog

2011 is Coming! Quick, Look Busy!

December 31, 2010 | 2 Comments

Well, let’s not be shy about it: 2010 sucked. I think every person I know went through some kind of major life change this year, including myself, and even though many of those changes were for the better, they still hurt when they happened, and many of them continue to sting now. 2010 was [...continue...]

Emotional Remove and Porn Fantasy, Part II

December 30, 2010 | 1 Comment

>Most of our cultural experience, through media in general and porn in particular, does little to dispel the difficulty of incorporating emotion into our sexual lives. Particularly since we all know that porn is supposed to be bad and that we’re not supposed to be watching it, that remove we [...continue...]

Neck Massagers Are Deadly

December 29, 2010 | 0 Comments

>This just in: electric “neck massagers” can kill your if you use them “properly.” According to MSNBC, a Florida physician was using her “massager” to “massage” her “neck” when it “became ensnared on her necklace and strangled [...continue...]

Emotional Remove and Porn Fantasy, Part I

December 28, 2010 | 0 Comments

This is part one of a two- or three-part series of musings about porn, sex, and emotion. The series isn’t finished yet, so I’m publishing it in parts to keep the length down. Comments and feedback would be much appreciated. I believe above most other things in the necessity of fantasy. [...continue...]

I’m Officially COOL

December 27, 2010 | 0 Comments

Whoooo! I am awesome! Seriously, this time I am not tooting my own horn (still at the parents, where that’s not allowed). I am officially a published writer on a website by Madison Young, the queen of sex-positive porn, the empress of awesome, the coolest of queer-friendly, the most amazing [...continue...]

Remembering the Rest of the World

December 25, 2010 | 0 Comments

I’m in not-allowed-to-talk-about-porn land, aka my parents’ house in the country. Yesterday was awkward as I tried to work my conversation around all things relating to sex and pornography and maintain interest in less-sexy topics, but it’s getting easier as time goes by. And, you [...continue...]

Christmas Travel Blog

December 24, 2010 | 0 Comments

A few MORE notes: 1) The Red Dwarf set did not enter into last night’s peace-vibe-making. My own living room, however, is quite hot to have all manner of crazy sex in. 2) I’m now on a train. I’ve been working on several longer blog entries for you all to read over your long [...continue...]

The Not-Doctor Is In: How to Become a Male Porn Star

December 23, 2010 | 0 Comments

Once again, Twitter has provided a question for Dr. Lags, Sexpert, to answer. I’ve done the best I can, but I’m sure the guy can use advice from those who know more than lil’ ol’ me in the comments section! Dear Dr. Lags: Any advice on how to start in the industry as a male [...continue...]

Red Dwarf is Unexpectedly Sexy

December 23, 2010 | 0 Comments

Are your panties wet? Mine are. Well, readers, I’m very happy to report that my day-late contribution to Global Orgasm for Peace Day was a doozie. I may have come to the party late, but when I came, I came, again and again. So I feel like not chipping in on the big day was ok in the end, [...continue...]
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