Musings

Candida Royalle has Passed Away

September 8, 2015 | 0 Comments

I was heartbroken to return to work today and learn that legendary feminist firecracker, visionary feminist filmmaker, trailblazing toy maker, and legendary force in sex positivity Candida Royalle has passed away at age 64 from ovarian cancer. [...continue...]

Luna Luna: No Safe Word (an Interview with Arrie Davidson)

July 31, 2015 | 0 Comments

Photo by Shane Velazquez I’m not going to tell you in my own words why you need to read the interview I did with Arrie Davidson, aka Faux Pas le Fae, about her new show, “No Safe Word,” debuting tomorrow night at Dixon Place. The show is a sort of movement-based performance that [...continue...]

I’ve Changed

April 14, 2015 | 0 Comments

I am far from perfect now, and I know that even with how far I've come in the past eight years, I still have very far to go. I know I'll never achieve perfection in my worldview, my ability to articulate my thoughts, my activism. But that's kind of the point, isn't it? [...continue...]

Porn Is Better in Community. I’m Serious.

March 3, 2015 | 0 Comments

In this context, the consumption of pornography is a shared experience about which we have different feelings and reactions. Porn becomes a text for criticizing or enjoying, just like any other form of media. [...continue...]

Luna Luna: When Pleasure Is Elusive… Or Nonexistent

February 5, 2015 | 0 Comments

I counseled someone who wrote to me terrified that she might be incapable of experiencing sexual pleasure. I gave her a whole list of possible reasons for her problem, ranging from medical issues to fetishes to anatomical differences, and I pointed out some paths for exploring in the hopes of remedying the situation. [...continue...]
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