Shameless Self-Endorsement

OMG This is Gonna Be So Awesome!

October 12, 2011 | 0 Comments

F’realz you guys OMG I’m soooo excited right now! I can’t give out details on all of thus juuuust yet, but be warned! The next month is going to be a cornucopia of crazy fun for me, and you–yes YOU–are invited to join me or read about it ALL! First up: this weekend [...continue...]

Gimme Your Questions

October 8, 2011 | 0 Comments

I’ve been writing answers to people’s sex and relationship questions here and on WHACK! Magazine for a while now. And I’ve been pondering the questions people ask me in person when they find out that I write about porn–the role I play as the middle ground between the [...continue...]

I Interview Nica Noelle About the APA

September 27, 2011 | 0 Comments

I had a pretty interesting chat with Nica Noelle, adult director and head of Sweet Sinner films and a porn industry staple for years. She, along with Madison Young, January Seraph, Maggie Mayhem, and others, are at the helm of the brand-spanking-new Adult Performers Association out in Lalaland. [...continue...]

Two Totally Terrific Questions, Part II

September 16, 2011 | 0 Comments

Dale asked: New follower. Discovered you on twitter and have started to follow your blog. I absolutely loved your piece on you former military friend! Questions. Do you have a book out? You mentioned somewhere that you had both a girlfriend and boyfriend. Do you still (or at all) think of yourself [...continue...]

Shameless Self-Endorsement (and India Summer, too!)

September 14, 2011 | 0 Comments

Well, hey, if I’m on a “not really thinking but posting anyway” kick… Let’s do more self-promotion and links! Weehoo! 1) I did a really fun interview with the hyper-hot, super-spiritual, highly horny, and impressively articulate India Summer for WHACK! Magazine that [...continue...]

Conversations at the Wartime Cafe

September 11, 2011 | 0 Comments

I just returned from reading a short piece I wrote for inclusion in my fellow McSweeney’s alum Sean Labrador Y Manzano’s anthology, Conversations At the Wartime Cafe. A few of us east-coast scribblers included in the anthology got together and read at Bluestockings Books on the LES here [...continue...]

You Know What I Love? Ladysex

September 8, 2011 | 0 Comments

A friend told me a few days ago that when she told her husband she was excited for my impending visit, during which we would spend some time with our lesbian friend together, he said, “So what, are they going to spend all their time talking about having sex with women?” She was offended [...continue...]

A Cartoon

September 3, 2011 | 0 Comments

I was thinking of blogging tonight but instead started picking up the detritus around my easel. I found a piece of cardboard I’d used as a palette a while ago, with some dried black and tan and red paint on it. The black looked a bit like a frumpy lady’s head and the tan looked a little [...continue...]

Hurricane Irene: A Great Excuse to Stay Home and Masturbate

August 28, 2011 | 0 Comments

Oh yeah. She’s coming. Well, that was insanely anticlimactic. Come on, Irene! You call that a storm? But I know myself, and the moment I heard that Hurricane Irene was heading straight for my fair city, I prepared. I’m from the country originally, where rain and snow and power outages [...continue...]

The Woman’s POV Part IV

July 5, 2011 | 0 Comments

I’m proud (kind of) to present my last in a four-part series on Madison Young’s TheWomansPOV.com about searching for the woman’s POV in porn. I wrote the series over the course of a few months, and as so often happens when writing about difficult theoretical and sexual terrain, my [...continue...]
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