Holy. Freaking. Crap. I think I’m dead. My book is hitting shelves like right now (preorders at bookstores are in and a few stores are selling them already), and it just got named to a list of “10 Buzzworthy Books from Memoirists and Essayists” by Kirkus Reviews. Rad on its own, [...continue...]

I will be celebrating the launch of "Watching Porn" with the coolest book launch party ever: a panel discussion at the Strand bookstore in New York City with some truly incredible humans! [...continue...]

On Monday, June 5—the day before the book's release—I'll be reading from "Watching Porn" at the Pleasure Salon at the Delancey in New York City! The Pleasure Salon is a wonderful event that celebrates sex- and pleasure-positivity in the New York community. [...continue...]

Did you know you can get a signed copy of my upcoming book, Watching Porn: And Other Confessions of an Adult Entertainment Journalist, without leaving your house? Introverts, this is for you! [...continue...]

This week I had three—count 'em, three—articles published at MEL Magazine. I basically took over the magazine, and you know what? I kinda liked it. This week saw the beginning of two new series: one about Porn Around the World and one pairing sex experts with "normal" folks in search of advice. [...continue...]

Check it out, everybody! The publishing company I co-founded with my amazing partner, visual artist Jayel Draco, has just released its first book, The Great Nations of Rendaraia, and we are getting alllll kinds of love for our efforts! Give these links a look! [...continue...]

You guys! Oh my golly! I’m over the moon to tell you the big news. As you may know, I started a publishing company about a year ago with my partner, Jayel Draco. We called it Oneshi Press (“Oneshi” is a word we invented that means a two-spirit intersex person in the language of a [...continue...]

There is something much deeper happening here, between Mistress and slave. Something that's difficult to put into words. Something that I encourage you to watch the film to understand. [...continue...]

Full disclosure: I grabbed this image because it looks kind of weirdly sexy, doesn’t it? Is it just me? Happy Hump Day, everybody! Spring is creeping into Montana, finally, and I’ve got a small dose of the good stuff: Wednesday links for you to enjoy. And—surprise!—they all have to [...continue...]

Porn parodies aren't necessarily here to talk policy. They're here to bring those on high down to the level of us mere citizens by reminding the world that when it comes down to getting down, we're all pretty ridiculous. And in that way, "The Donald" delivers. [...continue...]