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Luna Luna: My First Vibrator

March 14, 2016 | 0 Comments

"We are so, so lucky to live in a time when sex toys are experiencing kind of a renaissance. A sexy enlightenment, if you will. There are more companies starting all the time, releasing more products at every turn, cooking up creative new ways to make every body feel fantastic! You have a huge variety of "adult novelties," as they like to say, to choose from. So vast is the pool of pleasure products that it can get a little overwhelming. So let’s start with the easy stuff." [...continue...]

Luna Luna: If You Want a Job Done Right…

June 10, 2015 | 0 Comments

I talk to two letter writers who are trying to get back in touch with their sensual sides, one of whom "loses interest" in dirty deeds, and another who, after a lifetime of sexual violence, manipulation, fear, and shame, has rediscovered her wild side through erotic literature. [...continue...]

Luna Luna: When Pleasure Is Elusive… Or Nonexistent

February 5, 2015 | 0 Comments

I counseled someone who wrote to me terrified that she might be incapable of experiencing sexual pleasure. I gave her a whole list of possible reasons for her problem, ranging from medical issues to fetishes to anatomical differences, and I pointed out some paths for exploring in the hopes of remedying the situation. [...continue...]

Luna Luna: Pigglie-Wigglies and Jubblie-Wubblies

January 12, 2015 | 0 Comments

I have to admit, this one threw me a bit. But I'm glad the question came in. Otherwise I would likely have gone through my entire life without contemplating: How does one ask one's professional service provider to remove her bra before letting you toe her tits? [...continue...]

…big news is coming… (also links)

December 22, 2014 | 0 Comments

In the meantime, eat some cookies, drink some eggnog or cider or hot chocolate, stop worrying about your calorie intake, watch schmaltzy movies, hang out with your loved ones, and be merry! Focus on love and respect and being a good human being. We need as many of them as we can get right now. [...continue...]

In-Between-Holidays Links

December 28, 2013 | 0 Comments

Christmas lights in my glasses! This week has gotten me so far behind on all the things! Christmas is great, but like woah. So much to catch up on! In the meantime, y’all… two things: 1) I published a sex/realtionship advice column over at Luna Luna Magazine the other day! This [...continue...]

Luna Luna Love & Lust Advice Column

September 5, 2013 | 0 Comments

My very first sexpert/pervert/porn aficionado Love & Lust advice column is out on Luna Luna Magazine! I’m so psyched! I’ve always wanted a sex column and I have one at a fabulous site that caters to goth people who tend toward feminism. This month I got a whole lot of questions, so [...continue...]

Grrrl Questions re: Pr0nzies?

August 1, 2013 | 0 Comments

Image from (weirdly) Pinterest (Riot Grrrl). Got questions about porn? Wanna hear answers from someone who knows a lot about it, but won’t look down on your weird questions or squitch up her face and make a gagging sound when she hears it? I’ve got the column for you! E-mail me [...continue...]
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