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Why Sex and Porn Matter

April 30, 2013 | 0 Comments

In a series of conversations, some of them with a troll on a Village Voice article about Stoya, and others after the fact with friends about my anger and passion on the subject of sex-positivity, I’ve realized that while my reasons for writing impassioned essays and graphic novels and making [...continue...]

The Reddit Rape Thread: some thoughts from a victim

August 3, 2012 | 0 Comments

I was gonna do what I usually do and post some image I find on Google Images on the topic of silence about rape. I even Google Image searched “silence about rape” and found some powerful images. But I decided, instead, to post a picture of myself. Because guess what, world: I’ve [...continue...]

Reflections on Going to the Gyno

August 11, 2011 | 0 Comments

I wonder what it’s like to be a gynecologist. I’m sure the experience varies wildly depending on your type of practice, geographic location, specialization, and so on, but every time I go to visit my gynecologist I just can’t help thinking that the job must be joyful and joyless [...continue...]