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Because things can never be easy, I have fallen sick with some kind of stomach bug and sinus problems the day before my move. I’m going to leave work early to go home and rest/drink broth/pack. I really want to talk about this article on Salon about how to deal with finding your kid’s [...continue...]

I was gonna do what I usually do and post some image I find on Google Images on the topic of silence about rape. I even Google Image searched “silence about rape” and found some powerful images. But I decided, instead, to post a picture of myself. Because guess what, world: I’ve [...continue...]

Hey Miss Lagsalot! I have been wanting to write in and say how much I adore your blog, think you’re rad and ask you questions for quite a while now. Why the reticence you ask? Well, mostly because this brings with it a confessional of some things that I don’t often share. I am currently in a [...continue...]

Dear Dr. Lags, It seems that straight males feel that the sexual holy grail is having a threesome with two women. However, there are women out there who, while open to such a possibility, face a double-standard. If a gal asks entertaining two dudes at once, her male partner often refuses to allow [...continue...]

Yes, Rachel Rabbit White. YES! I hope all you readers are signed up and ready to launch for Lady Porn Day, because I am excited as can be. Alas, not enough time on my hands to be very verbosely excited, but hey, you can go read about who is here! And yes, she’s right. Women have spent far too [...continue...]

My dearest darlings, it’s time for yet another visit with your one and only Dr. Lags, Sexpert! This week, we’ll be speaking to a dude who needs a fellatio fix, and anyone else out there with a similar problem. Dear Dr. Lags: I’m not particularly sensitive when I have sex. Which is [...continue...]