shame

Silencing and Sexual Shame and Monsters

May 1, 2014 | 0 Comments

I won’t go into detail here about what exactly happened to me last weekend. I don’t want to make the person involved feel bad, should that person come across this blog post. But the long and short of it is that I was shown, in very blatant terms, a manifestation of extreme sexual shame [...continue...]

Reflections from Cinekink 2012: Part One

February 10, 2012 | 0 Comments

It’s that glorious time of year here in NYC when the Cinekink film festival returns to the Anthology Film Archives to entertain, educate, and bring oft-hidden communities of kinksters and the curious together. I’m loving it so far! I’ve been chosen as a juror to help select [...continue...]