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Here’s what you do when you find out someone you have known personally and really, really liked as a person and a performer for years has done something totally not-ok that has affected thousands of other people: you get really, really conflicted about how to respond to the revelation. [...continue...]

Dear Dr. Lags, It seems that straight males feel that the sexual holy grail is having a threesome with two women. However, there are women out there who, while open to such a possibility, face a double-standard. If a gal asks entertaining two dudes at once, her male partner often refuses to allow [...continue...]

I just got back from a long overdue visit to genderqueer porn star Jiz Lee’s blog, which is fabulous, and it got me thinking about a few things: 1) I’m going to the Feminist Porn Awards, too! Yes, dearies, I will be in Toronto from April 14-16, geeking out about all my favorite porn [...continue...]