Conflicted Exxistence
I just published a new sex advice column over at Luna Luna. I really like this one, and I’d love to know if you do, too. I advise one young
Continue readingLuna Luna: New Sex Advice Column: Forgiveness and Vibrators and Kink
I’m extra-psyched about today’s sex and relationship advice column at Luna Luna Magazine! It’s about how to navigate the tricky territory of real-life versus sex-play-life in a sub/Dom relationship, and
The HIV crisis in the porn industry continues, with rumors of up to four performers now being infected (these rumors are NOT confirmed), all of whom were active in the
I was so glad to read this article about the sometimes-narrowness of the kink and sex-positive communities when it comes to those of us who advocate for sexual freedom and
Dear WHACK! This is going to sound really weird, but I have to tell someone about it because I just don’t know what to do. I’m in a great relationship
Well, my lovelies, I have returned from the Wild West. I wouldn’t call myself a changed woman, necessarily, but I have seen things that I will never forget, learned a
Continue readingSan Francisco Wrap-Up: Ultimate Surrender at Kink.com
Last night’s live tag team match-up of the featherweights, broadcast live on Kink.com from the Armory in San Francisco, was one hell of a match, ladies and gents! Yours truly
Continue readingULTIMATE SURRENDER TAG-TEAM FEATHERWEIGHTS FIGHT & FIST TO THE BITTER END
Our ever-curious correspondent and Editor-in-Chief, Miss Lagsalot, recently met the bodacious and boundary-breaking queer porn performer Sophia St. James at the Feminist Porn Awards in Toronto, and fell instantly in
Continue readingSOPHIA ST JAMES — “Being queer means that I’m an equal opportunity lover!”
I was perusing the interwebz this morning and came across a link on Violet Blue’s blog tiny nibbles to an article by Charlie Glickman, PhD, a sex educator and leading
Continue readingIssues of Consent: Do Passers-by or Pornographers Deserve a Say?
A few quick notices, my dearies: 1) Have you read about the “Naked Therapist” yet? You should. Fascinating stuff. I hope to write a few of my own thoughts on