Tag: kink
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Luna Luna: New Sex Advice Column: Forgiveness and Vibrators and Kink
I just published a new sex advice column over at Luna Luna. I really like this one, and I’d love to know if you do, too. I advise one young woman on forgiving herself for her low libido, and another on getting kinky. It’s rather telling that of the ten “Love + Lust” columns I’ve…
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Steering While Submissive
I’m extra-psyched about today’s sex and relationship advice column at Luna Luna Magazine! It’s about how to navigate the tricky territory of real-life versus sex-play-life in a sub/Dom relationship, and I daresay I did a pretty good job with it. Of course… I did a pretty good job with it for someone who has never…
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HIV Crisis Continuing in Adult Industry
The HIV crisis in the porn industry continues, with rumors of up to four performers now being infected (these rumors are NOT confirmed), all of whom were active in the Kink.com community. This is scary news. Very scary news. I don’t know if this has anything to do with the fact that condoms are now…
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The Orthodoxy of Sex-Positivity: or, a polemic from a poly-queer sex writer with a chip on her shoulder
I was so glad to read this article about the sometimes-narrowness of the kink and sex-positive communities when it comes to those of us who advocate for sexual freedom and understanding but don’t necessarily want to join in all the same things our compatriots enjoy. Especially when we write about it. As I read Tracy…
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SEXPERT ADVICE — I want to get kinky!
Dear WHACK! This is going to sound really weird, but I have to tell someone about it because I just don’t know what to do. I’m in a great relationship with a fantastic guy. He’s sweet, thoughtful, respectful, and pretty much every woman’s dream. We’ve been together for a while and we have great sex.…
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San Francisco Wrap-Up: Ultimate Surrender at Kink.com
Well, my lovelies, I have returned from the Wild West. I wouldn’t call myself a changed woman, necessarily, but I have seen things that I will never forget, learned a lot, and eaten one hell of a delicious burrito. On Friday evening, October 21, I hied myself with all haste to the San Francisco Armory…
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ULTIMATE SURRENDER TAG-TEAM FEATHERWEIGHTS FIGHT & FIST TO THE BITTER END
Last night’s live tag team match-up of the featherweights, broadcast live on Kink.com from the Armory in San Francisco, was one hell of a match, ladies and gents! Yours truly was there with bells on to get a peek at the smallest and toughest girls from the internet grapple, grope, and fuck each other into…
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SOPHIA ST JAMES — “Being queer means that I’m an equal opportunity lover!”
Our ever-curious correspondent and Editor-in-Chief, Miss Lagsalot, recently met the bodacious and boundary-breaking queer porn performer Sophia St. James at the Feminist Porn Awards in Toronto, and fell instantly in love. She tracked her down via just a little bit of stalking and had a chat about queerness, blacksploitation, authenticity, and kink! WHACK! MAGAZINE Hi,…
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Issues of Consent: Do Passers-by or Pornographers Deserve a Say?
I was perusing the interwebz this morning and came across a link on Violet Blue’s blog tiny nibbles to an article by Charlie Glickman, PhD, a sex educator and leading member of Good Vibrations. The article, called “Consent and Public Disgrace,” discusses the Kink.com site “Public Disgrace” and how, though he loves porn and kink,…
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Cinekink: Kink Crusaders
A few quick notices, my dearies: 1) Have you read about the “Naked Therapist” yet? You should. Fascinating stuff. I hope to write a few of my own thoughts on this one in the next few days. In all of my “free time.” 2) Charlie Sheen is the most entertaining/worrying thing ever. 3) You should…