love/lust

Last selfie of 2014? Maybe! Hello, my beautiful wintertime darlings! As 2014 draws to a close, everybody is doing Facebook posts and blog entries about their year in review. I was grumpy at first and was all, “My 2014 was dumb. I’m not writing one of those.”Because this year has [...continue...]

"Because we don’t talk about sex, we have no socially acceptable language of sex. And the language of porn has rushed in to fill that gap." [...continue...]

"You know, we believe you can change the world through sex. We’re working to make sex better for all of us. The world of business and tech is doing everything it possibly can to stop us. Where is the sense in that?" [...continue...]

I got so excited when I got it home that I started taking pictures. In hindsight, this was silly because the lighting was terrible, but you know what? I don't care. You're lookin' at 'em! [...continue...]

I promise that unless you're an indie pornographer yourself, you will probably learn something from that article. You'll also be privy to tidbits of interviews (the article was heavily edited down from my original 5,000-word draft) with Cindy Gallop, Tobi Hill-Meyer, Jiz Lee, Courtney Trouble, Shine Louise Houston, and several anonymous sources worldwide. [...continue...]

Bitch Magazine, Issue #64 Apologies, my lovely darling crumpets, for not writing you brilliant new blog posts more often! I am in the process of trying to find a new apartment in New York City, which anybody who makes less than a million dollars a year can tell you is pretty much the equivalent of [...continue...]

This week I did some stuff you can check out online! An interview with Native filmmaker Angel White Eyes, and me on the Bitch Media "Popcast"! [...continue...]