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On this podcast, I teamed up with my creative (and life) partner, artist Jayel Draco, to talk about our sex-positive graphic novel, Tracy Queen. [...continue...]

You may not know this because the media is not reporting on it, but at the behest of our current president, due to the subsequent going-along-with-it by the Army Corps of Engineers, today law enforcement will undertake the eviction of the Water Protectors at the Oceti Sakown camp that has been protesting the Dakota Access Pipeline for months. [...continue...]

Last selfie of 2014? Maybe! Hello, my beautiful wintertime darlings! As 2014 draws to a close, everybody is doing Facebook posts and blog entries about their year in review. I was grumpy at first and was all, “My 2014 was dumb. I’m not writing one of those.”Because this year has [...continue...]

See that diagram? That tells you how to be the perfect woman. At first I responded a little huffily to this article on Jezebel, which takes to task the (ostensibly female) writer of a Men’s Health piece called “11 Qualities of the Perfect Woman.” In it, Lindy West rants about how [...continue...]

I can’t put my finger on what it was about this weekend that made me so introverted, but suffice it to say I found myself arriving at Momentum feeling very awkward and unconfident and quiet. It’s been a while since I found myself in a group in which I had to explain myself as a [...continue...]

Well folks, I apologize for promising something without delivering it on time. That’s not like me. But let me tell you something: sitting in various rooms in a hotel for two and a half days straight, listening to people you admire talk about their personal theories on sex-positivity, new [...continue...]

I’m gonna get a jump on this blogging thing by posting tonight instead of tomorrow morning when I’m tired and confused and running late again. Of course, I may be a bit inebriated, but that shouldn’t stop me. Guys, for serious, Momentum is amazing. You should come next year. You [...continue...]

Hm. Twitter will not work for me at the moment. It’s been a day and a half, and when I load the page it says it’s “Done” but there’s nothing there. Is this an issue everybody’s having, or is it just me? Anyway, so I can’t advertise my new FB page on [...continue...]

This is part one of a two- or three-part series of musings about porn, sex, and emotion. The series isn’t finished yet, so I’m publishing it in parts to keep the length down. Comments and feedback would be much appreciated. I believe above most other things in the necessity of fantasy. [...continue...]