military

Two Totally Terrific Questions, Part II

September 16, 2011 | 0 Comments

Dale asked: New follower. Discovered you on twitter and have started to follow your blog. I absolutely loved your piece on you former military friend! Questions. Do you have a book out? You mentioned somewhere that you had both a girlfriend and boyfriend. Do you still (or at all) think of yourself [...continue...]

Thinking About Consent Again: What’s the Best Model for Porn?

April 25, 2011 | 0 Comments

A Newsweek article I read today about male-male rape in the military (seriously, only click on that link if you’re in a pleasant frame of mind; if you start out unhappy, you’ll end it wanting to go out and hurt someone) got me thinking about issues of sexual consent, and human ugliness, [...continue...]

Today in News That Makes Me Smile

February 17, 2011 | 0 Comments

Ok, at the moment, I’m officially off of writing about porn and onto writing about women’s rights because this shit is just getting ridiculous. I’ll be back to sex in film tomorrow, after attending a panel on the topic at the New York Museum of Sex tonight, so never fear! In the [...continue...]