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Here’s what you do when you find out someone you have known personally and really, really liked as a person and a performer for years has done something totally not-ok that has affected thousands of other people: you get really, really conflicted about how to respond to the revelation. [...continue...]

I first met Shelley Lubben at the Exxxotica convention in New Jersey in 2009 when I went as part of the WHACK! Magazine crew. We watched her heckling people as they went by and somehow obsequiously pandering to all the big stars there as well, and we thought, this woman is a nutter. We’ve got [...continue...]

I was planning to write a review of a fascinating new art film from Carlos Batts today, but then I read this article about two people being sentenced to death for running porn sites in Iran. And. You know. Some days I just don’t have it in me to fight it. Sometimes it’s just too sad. [...continue...]