sexuality

I wrote for Women Write About Comics and Medium about why promiscuous women are actually badasses, and I why I wrote a graphic novel to that effect. [...continue...]

Image courtesy Erika Lust My darlings, I am so happy to be able to present to you a full-length interview that I recently conducted with the amazing, talented, crazy-smart, gorgeous, utterly effervescent feminist erotic filmmaker, Erika Lust! I contacted her when researching my recent article about [...continue...]

Well, the year’s almost over. It’s been one of those wild years where so much happened that it feels like an eternity ago that I was celebrating the last day of 2012 (with Korean BBQ because that’s how you DO IT). And yet it’s all gone by so fast! I won a Feminist Porn [...continue...]

I’m exhausted. Here’s what I’ve got. Image by Andreas Heumann 1) Running away from everything remotely relating to sex or sexuality will not make them go away. It will just make you more uncomfortable with the world. 2) Living in New York has made me extremely impatient. Or maybe [...continue...]

I like to think of myself as a realist. I’ve read much on human evolution and sexuality. I have always been tuned toward the sexy side of life, finding innuendo in the most innocent of places and shaping my life around my sexual desires; how could it be shaped any other way? I have placed [...continue...]

You lucky, lucky people! I’ve been conducting interviews like woah lately for several publications, and they have all been GREAT. Sadly, since they’re for other publications, it’d be rude of me to reprint them here, but I can offer some excerpts to whet your appetites and wet the [...continue...]

Also because she looks like this. THIS is why I love Madison Young. I just read this old article on TheWomansPOV.com, and it made me say, “Yes, yes, yes!” An excerpt: “There is a rise of feminist and queer porn producers such as myself, Courtney Trouble, and Shine Louise Houston. [...continue...]

Yes, Rachel Rabbit White. YES! I hope all you readers are signed up and ready to launch for Lady Porn Day, because I am excited as can be. Alas, not enough time on my hands to be very verbosely excited, but hey, you can go read about who is here! And yes, she’s right. Women have spent far too [...continue...]

>Most of our cultural experience, through media in general and porn in particular, does little to dispel the difficulty of incorporating emotion into our sexual lives. Particularly since we all know that porn is supposed to be bad and that we’re not supposed to be watching it, that remove we [...continue...]

This is part one of a two- or three-part series of musings about porn, sex, and emotion. The series isn’t finished yet, so I’m publishing it in parts to keep the length down. Comments and feedback would be much appreciated. I believe above most other things in the necessity of fantasy. [...continue...]