thanksgiving

America is a deeply confusing place, peopled with a culture that's literally built on top of an Indian graveyard. And here we are. And here we must be, because what else are we to do? I am so very thankful for all I have, and I must also maintain a healthy skepticism of the systems and structures and history that allow me to have it. [...continue...]

I wrote a new sexpert column for Luna Luna! This one is about whether you can forget how to have sex, what crosses the line into ‘not ok’ in the world of sexuality these days, watching pr0nzies with your significant other, and how to deal with an S.O. still hung up on an ex. Also, [...continue...]

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone! I hope it’s a fun time for you all, even if the presence of family can be tense. Trust me, I understand. We’ve dicsusssed this subject before. Every time I go to visit my family for a holiday, I must perform a careful balancing act. Everyone around me, with [...continue...]

Sitting around the table trying not to be too obviously the black sheep yesterday (by which I mean pretending that the perverted and inappropriate half of my brain wasn’t running on high as I sat across from my grandmother), I started thinking about family and what it means in the larger [...continue...]