Luna Luna: Why We Need #yesallpeople
So I wrote an article over at Luna Luna about why I think that we should try, where possible, to shift from the #yesallwomen/#notallmen hashtag flame war into a more
Category: Musings
Luna Luna: Sex & Dance & Drunkenness at ‘Diaghilesque’
I wrote about my experience at “Diaghilesque” in April, a night of burlesque and ballet and genderfuckery and much nudity presented by Kinetic Architecture and Faux Pas le Fae. It
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Um, Y’all Need to See This
This Map Shows Which States Have the Longest (And Shortest) Sex in America. Looks like some of us need some practice, n’est-ce pas? Better get to masturbating, folks. Oh, and
Mid-Day Quickie: Links!
Never fear, my darling dolls, I am working away on a response to my weekend in Toronto with all the fabulous feminists at the FPAs and FPCon! But I drafted
Bodies: some personal musings
I’ve had a lot of people ask me, over the years, why I don’t try performing in porn since I’m so interested in it. My answer is usually something along
AVN Awards 2014: some thoughts
The 31st annual AVN Awards were held this past weekend in Las Vegas to honor the work of the porn industry over the past year, and I want to talk
Using My Brain While Menstruating
I am sitting here in front of my computer and my brain is telling me I should be blogging. I have been staring at the screen for a while, telling
Suck My…
This morning, in the subway station, there was a man yelling at everybody. He looked middle-aged, not in any way unkempt, except that the windchill was around 10 degrees Farenheit
Saving Porn
I’ve talked to a lot of people about how they consume pornography. The conversations usually start out slow, then lengthen and deepen until I find people talking about truths that
The Red Umbrella Diaries: A Show and a Documentary About Sex Work (and really about healing)
You’ve probably heard stories about sex workers. Whether as the subjects tasteless jokes or sob stories of abuse and addiction, sex workers hold an almost mythological place in our culture,