Conflicted Exxistence
I’m exhausted. Here’s what I’ve got. 1) Running away from everything remotely relating to sex or sexuality will not make them go away. It will just make you more uncomfortable
Continue readingExhausted Post-Weekend Sex and Porn Thoughts
It’s really easy to despair right now. The Zimmerman acquittal has sparked so much pain across America, raised again the reality of race, inequality, and power in our country. Watching
Yesterday I spoke to my mother on the phone. I mentioned that I was thinking of tailoring my freelance copyediting services specifically to my friends and colleagues in the adult
Continue readingComing Out: or, my failed attempts at talking about what I do
Read this. READ THIS. Danny Wylde, one of the most articulate porn stars I’ve ever known, writes about his experience of coming out as a sex worker to his family
I was part of a conversation last weekend that made me do some real thinking about porn in the “real world.” It started with me pontificating on the topic of
Wow, y’all. I have some sort of really painful something going on in my mouth right now. Dunno what it is exactly, but I’m going to the dentist this afternoon
I’m writing an article for Corset magazine, with a word limit of 800. This is very short for me. I like to write long things. And there is so much
1) Angelina Jolie’s boobs are gone. At least her real boobs are gone. And you know what, awesome. She’s still going to be gorgeous and powerful and do what the
In a series of conversations, some of them with a troll on a Village Voice article about Stoya, and others after the fact with friends about my anger and passion
Seriously. It’s true. This occurred to me at the press conference a day before the Feminist Porn Conference got going, and it blew my mind. They’re fighting for the same