Conflicted Exxistence
You know how I write things like articles and books and poems? Well, check this out: I also write comic books. Right now, I’m raising funds to print my very first standalone comic book over at Kickstarter! … Continue readingMy First Kickstarter: or help me print my first comic book!
I’m going to have to start adding new stuff to my bucket list. My first article, about weed and porn, was published over the weekend at Rolling Stone! … Continue readingI’m in Rolling Stone, Talking about Weed and Porn!
Just in time for you to zone out at the end of your work-week, here’s a whole lotta links to enjoy! (Or rage out about, or be grossed out by, as may be appropriate in some cases. Hey, it’s a lotta links! I like to give options!) My new work at Playboy and MEL, and others’ contributions at UNLV, The Outline, and elsewhere! … Continue readingA Lotta Links for Your Weekend: Playboy, MEL, and more!
“Watching Porn,” my half-memoir, half-informative-book-about-the-adult-industry, won the gold medal (top honors!) in the Sexuality/Relationships category in the Independent Book Publishers Awards, or IPPYs! … Continue reading“Watching Porn” Won an Award!
I spoke to the intelligentsia of the sex and robotics industries for Playboy.com. My mission: to discover if my fears of sex-crazed smart bots were justified. From the guy behind the RealDoll and its accompanying AI app, Harmony, to a spokesperson for xHamster, where AI agents are trying to decode “the language of love,” to the co-director of the Foundation for Responsible Robotics, I got some really interesting answers. … Continue readingMy First Playboy Article: AI in Sex-Tech
I am 110% here to watch Donald Trump get taken down a peg (or hopefully several–hell, I hope he gets kicked out of office for this mess) by a woman who is also a sex worker who is ALSO a republican. The poetry of the situation is perfect beyond reckoning. And I’ve got plenty of popcorn ready to watch it go down. I’m also here to capitalize on Stormy’s resurgence by linking to the interviews I did with her. … Continue readingThe Stormy Daniels Bandwagon is One I’m Fine with Jumping On
I profiled three makeup artists who, between them, were prepping about 15 women. Long days at the expo and long nights at the AVN Awards and after-parties mean a LOT of makeup help! That meant that for two days, I got to hang out with some of the industry’s top talent and the people who help them transform into their best selves for their fans. … Continue readingMakeup Artists in the Porn Industry: A New Article at Allure.com
I realized today that I don’t talk about my Patreon enough. It’s not one of those Patreons where I send you pictures of my boobs if you send me money…But
Continue readingI Have a Patreon (and I use it to publish stuff)
As you might recall, I published my first nonfiction book in 2017. I spent a lot of time and energy promoting it. In 2017, I also published two collections of
It’s been a hell of a year. For everyone. The kind of year that you look back at and feel truly, deeply thankful for what you still have. Together we’ve