I Wrote About My Queerness

November 14, 2013 | 0 Comments

It’s very serious. Yes, I did. And it’s up on Luna Luna Magazine for the whole wide world to see. I don’t know why I still get so nervous about this. Someone reposted the link on Facebook and tagged my “personal” account–the one my family sees–and I [...continue...]

Two Totally Terrific Questions, Part II

September 16, 2011 | 0 Comments

Dale asked: New follower. Discovered you on twitter and have started to follow your blog. I absolutely loved your piece on you former military friend! Questions. Do you have a book out? You mentioned somewhere that you had both a girlfriend and boyfriend. Do you still (or at all) think of yourself [...continue...]

“But what about those who swing both ways? AC/DCs?”

August 30, 2011 | 0 Comments

I realize that in writing this I’m holing myself up quite solidly in my ivory tower, but I’m prepared to deal with that. This is, after all, my damn blog. I’ve been waiting around to hear some responses to the new bisexual men study from Northwestern University before talking [...continue...]

Reflections on the AVN Awards, Part I

January 12, 2011 | 1 Comment

I attended the AVN Awards show for the first time ever on Saturday night, and I’ve been thinking about it ever since. The AVN Awards are, as I’m sure you’re aware, like the Oscars of porn: the most prestigious awards available to performers, directors, and others in the porn [...continue...]