Conflicted Exxistence
My two latest articles, at Vice and Men’s Health, show my passion for pulling the things we’re ashamed of out of the closet they live in, giving them a hug, and presenting them to the world in better light. Demystifying them, as it were. … Continue readingDemystifying Sexual Fetishes & Practices
I got to wondering: was the post–Fifty Shades kink bubble popping? Had pop culture’s obsession with fetish and BDSM and Ben Wa balls reached its high-water mark? Was mainstream kink in America over? I started hyperventilating and dreaming up picket-sign designs along the lines of “We’ll Never Go Back!” But then I righted myself and spoke to kinky folks from lifestyle consumers to the tippy top tops at FetLife and Kink.com about what the heck is going on. And I came away with a much more nuanced understanding of the situation. (Hint: The bubble may not have burst, exactly, but it has changed.) … Continue readingKink Is Dead! Long Live Kink! at MEL Magazine
Hello, everyone! I’m so sorry I’ve been out of commission on this website for a little while. I have been super crazy busy doing super crazy cool things, like a
It’s taken me a while to get up the gumption to do this, because most of the photos from the shoot I did with Natasha Gornik are racy to say
Natasha Gornik is one of those kinda-familiar names at WHACK! HQ. She’s photographed and worked with our most fabulous favorites, the Domi Dollz, and was featured on their site as
Continue readingNatasha Gornik’s Fetishy Fun-Fest at Arlene’s Grocery
On her whirlwind trip to the City of Angels last week, WHACK!’s own weird and wonky wordsmith, Miss Lagsalot, followed some directions from Oriana Small aka Ashley Blue to a
Continue readingWHACK! EXCLUSIVE! FREAKY FETISH PHOTOS WITH ASHLEY BLUE AND ERIC KROLL!
Dearest readerly ones. I’ve encountered Vid Tuesday’s work here and there in my explorations of queer kinky porn, and I’ve been very impressed. Vid seems to me like a laid-back,
A few quick notices, my dearies: 1) Have you read about the “Naked Therapist” yet? You should. Fascinating stuff. I hope to write a few of my own thoughts on