new york city

On Monday, June 5—the day before the book's release—I'll be reading from "Watching Porn" at the Pleasure Salon at the Delancey in New York City! The Pleasure Salon is a wonderful event that celebrates sex- and pleasure-positivity in the New York community. [...continue...]

Happy #throwbackthursday, delightful readers! This week I thought I’d whisk us away to that gross time we all remember: March of 2011, when New York City was cold and clammy and drippy. Lucky for us city dwellers five years ago, porn powerhouse Lisa Ann came to visit! She was feature dancing [...continue...]

Just in time for me to go on vacation (thank god), my latest piece for Luna Luna surfaces! I originally called it "A Breakup Letter to New York." [...continue...]

My feels when I reconnected with the world. So I went to Montana for ten days. It was amazing. I had a blast. And my tablet screen broke so I couldn’t use it at all, and I had zero cell reception and only the spottiest WiFi capabilities, so I was pretty much incommunicado the entire time. I [...continue...]

It's that time of year again! What time of year? you may be asking. The time when we take off our shoes and lay around on the grass? The time when we buy food-truck morsels and have a picnic? The time when we take a free ferry to a free poetry festival and enjoy the summer on Governor's Island? [...continue...]

So last night, it finally happened. The inevitable. I walked out of a screening of Remedy, the quite-graphic film about a young New York woman who goes into professional BDSM work, basically on a dare, and faces a lot of semi-nude challenges, as part of the Cinekink NYC festival… and ran [...continue...]

My short film “Society” will be screening as an installation throughout the festival, so no matter which day you decide to come to… you’ll see it! Happy birthday to moi! CineKink Announces Kinky Line-Up for Tenth Annual Film Festival February 26 – March 3, 2013 NEW YORK, [...continue...]

I had quite a weekend. The Vanilla Party, “A DELICIOUSLY DECADENT FETISH FANTASY SUPER SEXY DUB STEP PARTY, COSTUME PLAY EVENT,” on Friday night was wild (see photo above for reference). Sadly my camera guy wasn’t able to come so I didn’t get the press footage I wanted [...continue...]

Several things you all should know about: 1) I’m researching the issue of adult performers and health care and have gotten some interesting leads. I’m trying to get in touch with Amber Peach about her article on Huffington Post, and have planned a few chats with performers about the [...continue...]

The wonderful people at apexart have made a dream of mine come true! I’ve been wanting to post the finished videos from the art show online so that people who couldn’t make it to the show itself in NYC could see what was going on, but given their size (they range from around 15 – [...continue...]