Conflicted Exxistence
“I think queer p0rn is opening a lot of doors for people and helping to expand the sexual boundaries of all kinds of people. It’s really important to show different kinds of bodies, safer sex methods, consent, treating performers like people, etc.” —James Darling … Continue readingAn Old, Moist Interview with James Darling
Way back in 2013, I spoke with activist and queer icon Buck Angel about his evolution, his activism, and his passion for rescuing animals. … Continue readingInterview with Adult Film Producer & Performer & LGBT Icon—Buck Angel
Watch video of me reading my chapter about racism in the adult entertainment industry and the interactive chat afterward! And come to my next reading! … Continue readingReal Talk: Live Video about Racism in Adult Entertainment, + an Invite
I’ve been writing a lot about sex lately, everybody! Sex in private, sex in porn! In America and in Israel! After much work, my articles are out in the world. Here are my most recent three pieces (one on private sex, and two on porn), at Glamour.com and MEL Magazine! … Continue readingSex! In Private and in Porn! In America and Israel!
I talked to Berman about the strange and rewarding trip, and to one of her biggest fans, Buck Angel, about her toy, the POP dildo, for MEL Magazine, and I came away smiling. This product is making a difference for a lot of people, and that makes me happy. Who knew a squirting dildo could be so inspiring? … Continue readingSpermin’ Berman and the Ejaculating Dildo, at MEL Magazine
So much speculation goes into how the “two” kinds of brains work, and all the nature-versus-nurture, evolution-versus-society talk gets impossibly old… all while people with different gender identities than just “male” and “female” are out there living their lives, exemplifying the fact that “male” and “female” are not the only two categories that humans fall into! … Continue readingLet’s All Freak Out About Arousal Studies
I have been remiss in my duties as a blogger, and I hope you haven’t been left wandering the lonely alleyways of the interwebz, scared and cold, without me. … Continue readingA Links-y Thursday Afternoon
I’m not going to tell you in my own words why you need to read the interview I did with Arrie Davidson, aka Faux Pas le Fae, about her new
Continue readingLuna Luna: No Safe Word (an Interview with Arrie Davidson)
I can watch a wealth of documentaries, films, and television series that deal blatantly and often unflinchingly with issues of sexuality, sexual identity, gender expression, and even pornography. … Continue readingA Sort-of Review: (Some of the) Sex & Porn on Netflix
I heard a lot of industry insiders giving tips about how to actively participate in making sure that you have access to the kind of stuff you want to watch. How to make sure it gets made in the first place. And I want to share those tips with you, so you can be the best porn consumer you can be! … Continue readingHow to Be a Better Porn Viewer: or, what I learned at the queer porn film festival