Conflicted Exxistence
A few big pop culture items have crossed my radar this week, which is remarkable given that I’ve been sick and grumpy and menstruating and it’s cold and rainy outside.
Continue readingQuick Thoughts on Pop Culture from Your Grumpy Neighborhood Feminist
I promise that unless you’re an indie pornographer yourself, you will probably learn something from that article. You’ll also be privy to tidbits of interviews (the article was heavily edited down from my original 5,000-word draft) with Cindy Gallop, Tobi Hill-Meyer, Jiz Lee, Courtney Trouble, Shine Louise Houston, and several anonymous sources worldwide. … Continue readingThe Love/Lust of Bitch Magazine is OUT!
This week I did some stuff you can check out online! An interview with Native filmmaker Angel White Eyes, and me on the Bitch Media “Popcast”! … Continue readingI’ve Been Busy This Week
The arrangement that you have with him is probably sort of unspoken. It likely didn’t start out the way it is now. Chances are he was just your boyfriend or good friend at first, and he saw all the hard work you were doing. He offered to drop you off and pick you up at a shoot one day, and ended up helping you with your bags… … Continue reading“Suitcase Pimps” in the Adult Industry: an informational essay
Well this week’s return to the world has been pretty tough on me, so here are some awesome, bizarre, ultra-bizarre, and heh-worthy links and videos for you to enjoy and feel less-serious about as you sip coffee in the nude on your fire escape this weekend.
I mean. That’s what you do on weekends, right? It’s what I do on weekends…
Anyway. … Continue readingLess Serious Links and Videos for Your Nude Weekend Coffee Sipping. Or Whatever.
I am grateful to Christy Mack for having the courage to speak up and bravely show photos of the results of her assault–so often these kinds of domestic attacks happen in the shadows. Women, and all victims of abuse, are often afraid to speak up or have been convinced by the world that it is somehow their fault. Her willingness to show her injuries and to talk to the world about what happened shines a light into an often-dark corner of the world that affects so many. … Continue readingChristy Mack: Thoughts And Upsetness and Bravery
Things that happen in the past can and do send ripples into our futures and the futures of other people over which we simply do not have control. … Continue readingConsent, Mistakes, and Ripples: reflections on a mess
“Not complicated, just luscious morsels of arousing words offering lust and hot-blooded passion, something to keep us alive through our daily lives, make us twitch when we look and read them!” … Continue readingAn Interview with Anna of FrolicMe.com: the new video/photo/erotica hybrid [NSFW photos!]
Not sure if I want to be giddily joyous or completely horrified. Full disclosure: I grew up under the shadow of the Griswold vacation movies, and hated them until I
So, this is happening. Yep. A million bucks, up for grabs to whomever wins “The Sex Factor,” an upcoming online reality show to find the next big porn star. I
Continue readingThe Sex Factor: FINALLY, an adult entertainment reality show! (…?)