conflicted eXXistence blog

There are 28 pages of new comics by me in the 9th Oneshi Press Comics Anthology—the Justice Anthology! Here's what they're about. [...continue...]

It's a new year, a new decade, a full moon! Four years today since David Bowie died. Things are getting REAL. Let's take a look at some brand-new links! [...continue...]

My work/life balance was completely out of wack in 2019. So I'm setting myself some goals that will help change that in 2020—and doing it in public! [...continue...]

I'm extremely excited about the launch of the audiobook version of my award-winning memoir-slash-informative-book, "Watching P0rn"...that I narrated. Get it now on major audiobook platforms! [...continue...]

In this segment of a long interview with neuroscientist Nicole Prause, we talked about people's obsessive discomfort with studying sex—especially p0rn—how science really works, and disproving theories. [...continue...]

As part of my ongoing “Juicy Cuts” interview series, here is Part 2 of my long, fascinating interview with Nicole Prause, PhD, the neuroscientist behind Liberos! In this segment, we talked about orgasm vs. squirting, false claims on sexuality products, and why the sexual research [...continue...]

In Part 1 of my lengthy interview with Nicole Prause, a neuroscientist who studies sexuality and he brain, we discuss the amazing lack of knowledge around the physiology of orgasm in people with vulvas. [...continue...]

#NaNoWriMo is over! So, now what? Here are five tips on next steps that I can offer you as a published author, editor, publisher, and writing coach. [...continue...]

Just because it's unpleasant outside doesn't mean that I'm not thankful for all the sex-related news the internet has brought me in November! [...continue...]

Today marks the halfway point of #NaNoWriMo 2019! So here's an update on my progress, how I'm measuring up to my own goals, and what I've learned so far. [...continue...]