fantasy

This Sunday, November 11, we're going to enter "The Backward Slide" together! I'll go live on Facebook at 1:00 p.m. Mountain Time (3:00 Eastern/12:00 Pacific) to read Chapter 5 of my book, Watching Porn.  [...continue...]

Well hello there, my darlings. I just got back from SpoCon 2018—Spokane, Washington's local science fiction and fantasy convention! [...continue...]

Come hang out with me tonight on Twitch! I'll be taking viewer questions during a live Q&A starting at 5:00 p.m. MDT (that's 7:00 Eastern, 4:00 Pacific). Ask me anything! [...continue...]

You guys! Oh my golly! I’m over the moon to tell you the big news. As you may know, I started a publishing company about a year ago with my partner, Jayel Draco. We called it Oneshi Press (“Oneshi” is a word we invented that means a two-spirit intersex person in the language of a [...continue...]

My mini Bad Dragon fantasy dongs, which I still keep at my desk after bringing them home from AVN last year. Hey all you crazy kids gathering in Vegas for AVN right now! Have fun! I’m very sad to say that I won’t be attending the AVN Expo and Awards adult industry extravaganza going on [...continue...]

I'm serious. Please answer this. [...continue...]

Quick! Somebody check! Is there a female Doctor’s body squished under there? The other day I was chillaxing with some friends and the conversation turned to Doctor Who, which, as we know, is a favorite topic for me. The other people involved in the conversation were both guys. Some of the [...continue...]

Well, my friends, Masturbation Month is almost over, and I almost want to shed a tear for its passing. But you know, unlike so many other celebrations, like Halloween and Cow Appreciation Day (no, really, it’s a thing, kind of), there doesn’t have to be any let-down after May ends! And [...continue...]

But ah, that’s the thing. Porn may, for all abstract purposes, lie in the middle of this emotional/sexual spectrum as a safe zone for emotional and physical and fantastical experimentation, but that does not mean we treat it that way. For several reasons. Firstly, porn is, we all know, pure [...continue...]

>Most of our cultural experience, through media in general and porn in particular, does little to dispel the difficulty of incorporating emotion into our sexual lives. Particularly since we all know that porn is supposed to be bad and that we’re not supposed to be watching it, that remove we [...continue...]