There are some really fantastic humans doing fabulous things with crowdfunding right now! Here are some you might like to contribute to! … Continue readingGive Back with These Amazing Crowdfunding Campaigns
There is something much deeper happening here, between Mistress and slave. Something that’s difficult to put into words. Something that I encourage you to watch the film to understand. … Continue readingFilm Review: The Training of Poe (Part 1)
I talked to Berman about the strange and rewarding trip, and to one of her biggest fans, Buck Angel, about her toy, the POP dildo, for MEL Magazine, and I came away smiling. This product is making a difference for a lot of people, and that makes me happy. Who knew a squirting dildo could be so inspiring? … Continue readingSpermin’ Berman and the Ejaculating Dildo, at MEL Magazine
The Buck-off is the first and only pleasure product designed specifically for the bodies and needs of trans men, and luckily for me, the wonderful people at MEL Magazine were just as stoked as I was when I told them about it! The result is an article I wrote for them, with the help of Buck himself and his co-developers at Perfect Fit Brand pleasure products. … Continue readingI Wrote About the First Sex Toy for Trans Men!
Lunch meat–much like sexism–is a tradition that is bad for everyone, but which is considered totally acceptable because it’s so normal. … Continue readingThe Autoblow Vaginal Beauty Contest… is… a thing.
The stories told in “No Safe Word” aren’t just strange or entertaining anecdotes, they are representations of real people’s search for acceptance. No matter how strange they may seem to us on the outside, we all know from whence they come: our deepest, most vulnerable beating hearts. … Continue readingNo Safe Word: kinky nude dance performance art f*cking awesomeness
I counseled someone who wrote to me terrified that she might be incapable of experiencing sexual pleasure. I gave her a whole list of possible reasons for her problem, ranging from medical issues to fetishes to anatomical differences, and I pointed out some paths for exploring in the hopes of remedying the situation. … Continue readingLuna Luna: When Pleasure Is Elusive… Or Nonexistent