review

My custom Playbox! I’m going to be honest: I’ve written about sex for the past decade. I’ve become a proponent of sexual freedom and expression. A champion of the rights of consenting adults to get up to all kinds of hijinx. Kink is a huge part of what makes the sexy world go [...continue...]

Hey, beautiful humans! A quick update as I prepare for my numerous Montana Book Festival obligations this week: I just got a haircut and it looks so good! I’m working toward a David-Bowie-in-The-Man-Who-Fell-to-Earth look and I’ve got a good start! Gotta grow out the top a bit more and [...continue...]

Me right now Have you ever had something so wonderful happen that you’d call it a dream come true…Except you never dared to dream it in the first place? That’s kind of me right now. Because. Um. The New York Times Book Review just reviewed my book, Watching Porn… And [...continue...]

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA Hello, darlings! Meet me tonight at Shakespeare & Co. in Missoula for a live reading and book signing! I’ll be reading from the book starting around 7:00 pm, answering questions, signing hardcovers of Watching Porn, and hopefully drinking wine. Can’t wait to [...continue...]

Me signing at the Strand (with Cindy Gallop in the background being a badass). Photo taken by (badass) Lisa Vandever. Well. It’s happened. My book has been unleashed on the world! Watching Porn has been getting attention from all over the place, from radio shows to live events to the pages [...continue...]

There is something much deeper happening here, between Mistress and slave. Something that's difficult to put into words. Something that I encourage you to watch the film to understand. [...continue...]

Full disclosure: I grabbed this image because it looks kind of weirdly sexy, doesn’t it? Is it just me? Happy Hump Day, everybody! Spring is creeping into Montana, finally, and I’ve got a small dose of the good stuff: Wednesday links for you to enjoy. And—surprise!—they all have to [...continue...]

Porn parodies aren't necessarily here to talk policy. They're here to bring those on high down to the level of us mere citizens by reminding the world that when it comes down to getting down, we're all pretty ridiculous. And in that way, "The Donald" delivers. [...continue...]

In the end, this parody isn't exactly the insightful and hilarious satire that I'd longed for, but it has its high notes and, I hope, would embarrass the everloving crap out of the president, which is why I encourage you to watch it, share it with friends, and petition WoodRocket.com to make lots more like it. [...continue...]

It's smart, sensual, and though it's often hardcore in what it depicts, it is never that way just for the sake of being hardcore. In other words, there is much more going on in these films than the physical act of sex. [...continue...]