Tag: sex
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Sex! In Private and in Porn! In America and Israel!
I’ve been writing a lot about sex lately, everybody! Sex in private, sex in porn! In America and in Israel! After much work, my articles are out in the world. Here are my most recent three pieces (one on private sex, and two on porn), at Glamour.com and MEL Magazine!
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Let’s All Freak Out About Arousal Studies
So much speculation goes into how the “two” kinds of brains work, and all the nature-versus-nurture, evolution-versus-society talk gets impossibly old… all while people with different gender identities than just “male” and “female” are out there living their lives, exemplifying the fact that “male” and “female” are not the only two categories that humans fall…
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Luna Luna: Latest Love + Lust!
I encouraged self-examination, self-pleasure, and Ilana Glazer. Cause duh.
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Girl Sex 101: or, why you should always contribute to Kickstarters
Look what I got in the mail today! That’s right! My very own, personal, signed copy of Girl Sex 101, “a sex-ed book like no other, offering helpful info for ladies and lady-lovers of all genders and identities, playful and informative illustrations on each page,” and segmentns from Nina Hartley, Sex Nerd Sandra, Jiz Lee,…
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Film Review: Marriage 2.0
My point is that trying to break the mold counts for a lot in the porn biz. Even trying too hard.
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Why I Can’t Write Erotica (or romance novels or sex scenes at all)
I focused instead on trying to get the voice right and to show that the woman was in control of her situation and her body, because dammit, feminism in a porno magazine was my way of fighting back!
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Silencing and Sexual Shame and Monsters
I won’t go into detail here about what exactly happened to me last weekend. I don’t want to make the person involved feel bad, should that person come across this blog post. But the long and short of it is that I was shown, in very blatant terms, a manifestation of extreme sexual shame on…
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In-Between-Holidays Links
This week has gotten me so far behind on all the things! Christmas is great, but like woah. So much to catch up on! In the meantime, y’all… two things: 1) I published a sex/realtionship advice column over at Luna Luna Magazine the other day! This month’s installment deals with how to be a good…
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Musings at the Metropolitan Museum
Over the weekend I went the Metropolitan Museum with a group of friends and took in, albeit too briefly for my liking, the “Arts of Africa, Oceania, and the Americas” exhibit. Not only is some of the art in there absolutely stunning in its in-your-face-ness, its symbolism, and its raw power… but, guys, a lot…
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Grrrl Questions re: Pr0nzies?
Got questions about porn? Wanna hear answers from someone who knows a lot about it, but won’t look down on your weird questions or squitch up her face and make a gagging sound when she hears it? I’ve got the column for you! E-mail me (misslagsalot @ gmail) or LUNA LUNA (lunalunamag @ gmail) with…