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Ever wonder how somebody breaks into the porn industry? Or what the people who work in and around adult entertainment think of their industry? How about the process of casting a skin flick? The race, gender, and other politics inside Hollywood’s grubby cousin? Have you pondered how I, myself, [...continue...]

I’ve just accepted a new writing gig, as a sex advice columnist for LUNA LUNA mag. Super psyched, because LUNA LUNA is a publication for grrrls who wear black nailpolish and engage in intellectual debate, who love getting all dark and writing/reading about stuff  “like malaise and nail [...continue...]

I’ve been writing answers to people’s sex and relationship questions here and on WHACK! Magazine for a while now. And I’ve been pondering the questions people ask me in person when they find out that I write about porn–the role I play as the middle ground between the [...continue...]

Dale asked: New follower. Discovered you on twitter and have started to follow your blog. I absolutely loved your piece on you former military friend! Questions. Do you have a book out? You mentioned somewhere that you had both a girlfriend and boyfriend. Do you still (or at all) think of yourself [...continue...]

Guys, it’s been MONTHS since I did a Dr. Lags, Sexpert column! WTF! What have I been DOING with myself? Well, ok, we all know what I’ve been doing: ranting and raving about other things. But it’s time for me to get a little less spleen-y and more helpful! Anyone out there got a [...continue...]

Maybe it’s daylight savings time messing up my schedule, or maybe it’s the fact that my neighbor seems to have decided that she needs to pack all of her belongings to move in the HALLWAY, where it’s really loud, or maybe it’s the fact that I have to go to work, or maybe [...continue...]

Howdy, folks! As you may have noticed (and wept over? yes? …no? damn.), I’ve been absent from blogging for a few days, and there is indeed a reason for that. After last week’s Cinekink madness, I have so much other work to catch up on that didn’t get done because I was [...continue...]

Hey people, SUPER busy day so no time for big fancy new blog posts, but hey, it’s been a while since I’ve put on my Not-Doctor Lags, Sexpert hat, and I’m jonesing to give some advice. So send me your questions, neuroses, and ponderings on the subjects of sex, porn, relationships, [...continue...]

Part II of my grandiose gangbang interview with Sabrina Deep! I think this is where we really get down to the nitty-gritty… Lag: Do the guys have a sense of camaraderie? Do they talk and get to know one another before they go onto the stage/in front of the camera? Or is it more of an awkward [...continue...]

I’m watching a gangbang right now for review. It’s bringing up a whole lot of questions in my mind. This is a lengthy one, not just a few clips online, and it’s giving me a lot of time to think about gangbang etiquette. I mean as far as they go, this is a pretty classy one. [...continue...]