“We are so, so lucky to live in a time when sex toys are experiencing kind of a renaissance. A sexy enlightenment, if you will. There are more companies starting all the time, releasing more products at every turn, cooking up creative new ways to make every body feel fantastic! You have a huge variety of “adult novelties,” as they like to say, to choose from. So vast is the pool of pleasure products that it can get a little overwhelming. So let’s start with the easy stuff.” … Continue readingLuna Luna: My First Vibrator
I talk to two letter writers who are trying to get back in touch with their sensual sides, one of whom “loses interest” in dirty deeds, and another who, after a lifetime of sexual violence, manipulation, fear, and shame, has rediscovered her wild side through erotic literature. … Continue readingLuna Luna: If You Want a Job Done Right…
I counseled someone who wrote to me terrified that she might be incapable of experiencing sexual pleasure. I gave her a whole list of possible reasons for her problem, ranging from medical issues to fetishes to anatomical differences, and I pointed out some paths for exploring in the hopes of remedying the situation. … Continue readingLuna Luna: When Pleasure Is Elusive… Or Nonexistent
I have to admit, this one threw me a bit. But I’m glad the question came in. Otherwise I would likely have gone through my entire life without contemplating: How does one ask one’s professional service provider to remove her bra before letting you toe her tits? … Continue readingLuna Luna: Pigglie-Wigglies and Jubblie-Wubblies
In the cut of the interview that made it onto Nerve, we discussed sex work, sex education, spanking, dirty talk, boobs, squirting, train boners, and a lot more. … Continue reading“Dispatches from a Dark Corner” is born at Nerve.com!
A new article of mine was published over the weekend at Luna Luna! This one is an advice column to a young man named James, who wonders how to get his l0w-libidoed girlfriend to be more interested in sex. … Continue readingLuna Luna: She’s Just Not That Into It (Having Sex)